CROSS-CULTURAL NEGOTIATIONS

A very common challenge that we face is how to avoid projecting our own values, fears and concerns onto others, such as our clients or negotiating counterparts. A lawyer for example might go to battle on behalf of a client for the maximum restitution that he perceives possible when the client really wants to settle amicably and move on. A doctor might prescribe an entire arsenal of pain medication when the patient might prefer to live with some moderate pain rather than to intoxicate himself with all those chemicals. A financial advi­sor with a high risk tolerance may talk his client into a high risk/high return investment when his client is far more risk averse.

This becomes a problem when we negotiate across borders and attempt to impose our own values, beliefs and systems onto the other side. What then might be a more effective way to successfully negotiate with those from different cultures to our own?